Essays
Essays examining psychological clarity, emotional regulation, identity, and the conditions that allow coherent thought and action.
About this series
This series consists of long-form psychological essays focused on understanding how attention, emotion, identity, and meaning function under modern conditions. These pieces are analytic rather than reactive, and explanatory rather than persuasive. They are written to clarify underlying psychological structures, not to comment on current events or offer personal guidance. The emphasis is on coherence: how inner life organizes itself, where it breaks down, and what allows it to stabilize again.
Ghosting Is Not Disappearance. It’s Withdrawal Used as Regulation.
Ghosting leaves people disoriented not because they were rejected, but because the relationship ended without context. This essay reframes ghosting as withdrawal used to regulate emotional discomfort rather than disappearance or cruelty. By examining how silence disrupts meaning-making and redirects blame inward, it clarifies why ghosting hurts the way it does and why its meaning has so often been misassigned.