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Professor RJ Starr – Academic Psychologist, Author, and Public Intellectual

New Release September 2025

The Psychology of Being Human

The book that brings emotional intelligence, meaning-making, and self-understanding into clear focus.

This is the book people have been waiting for—those who feel, think, and wonder deeply. Grounded in decades of psychological insight, The Psychology of Being Human integrates emotional intelligence, cognitive development, and existential theory into one clear and compelling framework. It’s not a self-help book. It’s a book about what it means to be a self at all.

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The Psychology of Being Human

The Psychology of Being Human: An Authoritative Guide to Mind, Emotion, and Meaning

By RJ Starr

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This book isn’t just informative—it’s transformative. A psychology professor’s life’s work, brought to the public with clarity and care.
— Marissa Langford, Depthmark Press

Meet Professor RJ Starr

Academic Psychologist, Author, and Public Intellectual

Human understanding requires more than reflection; it requires learning to see others with the same clarity we seek for ourselves. My work examines how people construct meaning, regulate emotion, and sustain identity in a fragmented cultural world.

Drawing on existential psychology, cognitive science, and affective neuroscience, I write, teach, and publish with the aim of bringing psychological insight into public life. Through books, essays, podcasts, and an evolving library of resources, I offer frameworks that clarify experience and strengthen the emotional maturity needed for connection, resilience, and coherence.

  • Clarity isn’t about having fewer emotions. It’s about learning to hear the right ones.

  • We don’t escape our stories by ignoring them. We escape by naming the parts that still write us.

  • Resilience is not how quickly you move on, but how honestly you stay present with what happened.

  • Most people don’t fear change. They fear what will be asked of them once it arrives.

  • Self-awareness is not a mirror; it’s a doorway into how your choices shape tomorrow.

  • Maturity shows in what you no longer need to defend.

  • Avoidance gives temporary peace at the cost of permanent unrest.

  • Identity isn’t discovered once; it’s sustained through the stories we choose to keep telling.

  • Healing doesn’t mean becoming invulnerable. It means knowing where you are already whole.

  • The measure of intelligence is not complexity of thought, but clarity of meaning.