Books
Books that explore psychology, self-awareness, emotional life, and the search for meaning. Written to deepen understanding and inspire personal growth.
Across personality, emotion, identity, leadership, and social behavior, these books offer a psychologically grounded lens on what it means to live, relate, and grow. Whether you're drawn to inner work or big-picture insight, each title is written to make complex ideas usable — and to help you understand both yourself and the world with greater clarity. All titles are published through Depthmark, LLC, a psychology-focused imprint created by RJ Starr.
Psychology for the complexities of modern life.
Introducing My Most Comprehensive Work to Date: The Psychology of Being Human
Release Date: September 20, 2025
ISBN: 979-8-9996293-0-2
Library of Congress Control Number: Pending
The Psychology of Being Human is my most comprehensive work to date. It explores the emotional, cognitive, and existential structures that shape human experience, bringing together decades of psychological inquiry into a unified framework for understanding the self.
This book marks a turning point in my publishing journey. My earlier works reflected distinct phases of inquiry—experiments in form, tone, and audience, each shaped by the questions I was asking at the time. In September, 2025, The Psychology of Being Human will be released by Depthmark Press, signaling a new chapter in my work: more integrated, more mature, and more expansive in scope.
The Psychology of Being Human is not just a continuation of previous work—it is a deeper articulation of the themes I’ve spent a lifetime exploring.
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How to Stop Overthinking Everything
A practical, psychology-rooted guide to help you break free from constant mental loops. This book teaches why your brain spirals, how to ground yourself in the moment, and what to do when thinking becomes a trap. Includes real tools and rituals for finding peace without needing every answer first.
The Emotionally Intelligent Life
Emotional intelligence is a daily practice, not a fixed trait. In The Emotionally Intelligent Life, psychology professor RJ Starr offers real-life tools for presence, accountability, and repair—helping readers grow into people who show up with clarity, care, and integrity when it matters most.
The Basics Still Matter
The Basics Still Matter is a heartfelt return to human truths we’ve forgotten in a fast, performative world. RJ Starr reminds us that presence, kindness, and emotional integrity still hold power—and that small, sincere acts are what truly sustain our relationships and sense of self.
Have You Ever Seen Anyone Yelling at a Dog?
This article explores the central themes of Have You Ever Seen Anyone Yelling at a Dog? by RJ Starr, examining emotional overreaction, impulse-driven behavior, and the psychology of misplaced frustration. It highlights key insights and practical strategies for emotional regulation and growth.
The Gentleman’s Way
The Gentleman's Way is a practical guide to living with integrity, grace, and purpose. Focusing on emotional intelligence, accountability, and self-discipline, it offers timeless insights for men seeking personal growth—and for women who wish to understand and support that journey.
Curating Your Inner Ecosystem
Curating Your Inner Ecosystem is a guide to reclaiming emotional, mental, and physical well-being through intentional living. With practical tools and mindfulness practices, it helps readers nurture a balanced inner world, fostering greater peace, clarity, and purpose.