Lesson 10: Mental Health and Human Struggle
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Welcome back to The Introduction to Psychology Series. I’m RJ Starr.
This is our final lesson in the series, and it’s about something many people carry quietly. Today, we’re talking about mental health and human struggle.
For some of you, this might feel personal. For others, it might feel abstract. But either way, this topic is essential—not just for understanding psychology, but for understanding what it means to be human.
We all go through periods of struggle. Sometimes it’s grief. Sometimes it’s stress. Sometimes it’s the quiet, persistent weight of something we can’t name. Psychology helps us understand that this struggle isn’t weakness. It’s not failure. It’s part of the human condition. And the more we can talk about it with honesty, the less isolated people feel when it shows up.
So in this lesson, we’re going to look at how psychologists understand mental health, psychological disorders, stress, and coping. We’ll also talk about therapy—not just as treatment, but as a space for meaning-making. And we’ll end with a broader look at where compassion fits into all of this.
Let’s start with the basics.
Mental health is more than just the absence of mental illness. It’s a state of emotional, psychological, and social well-being. It influences how we think, how we feel, how we relate to others, and how we handle stress. Good mental health doesn’t mean you’re always happy or never struggle—it means you have the tools to navigate life with awareness, resilience, and support.
But for many people, mental health becomes fragile. And when it does, they may experience symptoms that go beyond everyday ups and downs.
Psychological disorders—sometimes called mental illnesses—are patterns of thoughts, feelings, or behaviors that cause significant distress or interfere with a person’s ability to function. These patterns are not just extreme versions of normal feelings. They’re persistent. They’re disruptive. And they deserve attention and care.
The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, or DSM, is the main tool clinicians use to identify and classify mental disorders. It’s a constantly evolving document. Each edition reflects changes in how we understand psychological struggle. It includes disorders like depression, anxiety, PTSD, schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, eating disorders, personality disorders, and more.
It’s important to remember that a diagnosis is not a label for a person. It’s a description of a pattern. A framework. A way to name what’s happening so that treatment and support can be offered.
Let’s talk about some of the most common categories.
Anxiety disorders are among the most widespread. These include generalized anxiety disorder, panic disorder, social anxiety, phobias. Anxiety itself is a normal response to threat. It becomes a disorder when it’s chronic, intense, and not proportional to the situation. People with anxiety disorders often live in a state of hyper-vigilance. Their nervous system is on high alert, even when there’s no obvious danger.
Depressive disorders are another major category. Major depressive disorder is more than just feeling sad. It can involve a loss of interest in things once enjoyed, changes in sleep or appetite, fatigue, difficulty concentrating, feelings of worthlessness or guilt, and in some cases, thoughts of death or suicide. Depression is often invisible from the outside. It doesn’t always look like crying. Sometimes it looks like nothing. Numbness. Disconnection. Flatness.
Post-traumatic stress disorder, or PTSD, can develop after exposure to a traumatic event—combat, abuse, assault, accident, or even prolonged emotional neglect. People with PTSD may experience flashbacks, nightmares, hypervigilance, emotional numbing, or avoidance of triggers. PTSD is not a sign of weakness. It’s the nervous system trying to protect itself after being overwhelmed.
Obsessive-compulsive disorder, or OCD, involves intrusive thoughts—obsessions—and repetitive behaviors—compulsions—done to relieve anxiety. It’s not about being tidy or organized. It’s about being stuck in loops you can’t easily break. And it can be deeply distressing.
There are also bipolar disorders, which involve shifts between depressive and manic states. Mania can look like elevated mood, high energy, rapid thoughts, risky behavior, or irritability. It’s often misunderstood, even glamorized, but it can be dangerous and destabilizing.
Schizophrenia is a serious mental illness that affects a person’s ability to think clearly, manage emotions, make decisions, and relate to others. It may involve hallucinations, delusions, disorganized thinking, or flat affect. It’s not the same as having multiple personalities—that’s a common myth.
There are also eating disorders—like anorexia, bulimia, and binge-eating disorder—which involve complex relationships with food, control, body image, and often trauma. These are not choices or lifestyle issues. They are serious psychological disorders with medical consequences.
Personality disorders are a more controversial category, often defined by long-term patterns that impact relationships, self-concept, and emotion regulation. Borderline personality disorder, for example, involves intense emotions, fear of abandonment, and unstable relationships. But even here, we’re learning to move away from pathologizing and toward understanding the developmental roots of these patterns—often in trauma or early relational wounds.
So how do we make sense of all this? How do we differentiate normal struggle from disorder?
There are three main criteria psychologists use: distress, dysfunction, and deviation. Does the pattern cause significant emotional pain? Does it interfere with daily functioning—work, relationships, self-care? And is it outside the expected norms of a person’s culture and context?
It’s not always clear-cut. That’s why diagnosis requires nuance. And why we must always prioritize compassion over categorization.
Let’s talk about stress.
Stress is not always bad. A certain amount of stress—called eustress—can be motivating. But chronic stress can wear down the body and mind. It can increase the risk for anxiety, depression, cardiovascular problems, and immune system dysfunction. Stress activates the body’s fight-or-flight system. And when that system never shuts off, it takes a toll.
The way people cope with stress varies. Some use healthy strategies—exercise, social connection, mindfulness, therapy. Others use numbing strategies—alcohol, avoidance, control, compulsive behaviors. The goal of coping is regulation—not escape. To feel grounded enough to respond, not just react.
That’s where therapy comes in.
Therapy is not just for people in crisis. It’s for anyone who wants to understand themselves more clearly. There are many approaches—cognitive-behavioral therapy, psychodynamic therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, trauma-informed therapy, somatic therapy, narrative therapy. Each offers tools and perspectives. But at the core, therapy is a relationship. A space where you are allowed to be seen without being judged. A space to name what hasn’t been named. A space to heal through connection.
Not all therapy is good therapy. But when it works, it can change everything—not just how you cope, but how you think, how you relate, how you live.
And finally, we have to talk about stigma.
Even now, with all our awareness campaigns and mental health hashtags, stigma still exists. People still feel ashamed to struggle. Still fear being seen as weak, broken, dramatic, or dangerous. That fear keeps people silent. It delays help-seeking. It increases suffering. And it costs lives.
Stigma doesn’t just come from others. It comes from within. The voice that says, “You should be fine.” “Other people have it worse.” “Get over it.” That’s internalized stigma. And it’s heavy.
One of the most radical things we can do for mental health is to create environments where people don’t have to hide. Where pain is not pathologized. Where healing is not reserved for emergencies. Where the full range of emotional experience is welcomed, not punished.
Psychology is not about fixing people. It’s about understanding them. Supporting them. Meeting them where they are—and helping them get where they want to go.
Because suffering is not a flaw. It’s a signal. And mental health is not a luxury. It’s part of life. We all deserve access to it. We all need language for it. And we all benefit when shame is replaced with empathy.
So whether you’re someone who’s struggled quietly for years, or someone trying to understand a friend, a family member, or a student—this is your reminder: you don’t have to have the answers. But you can listen. You can learn. And you can be part of a culture where struggle is not something to hide, but something to hold—with care, with dignity, and with hope.
That’s the end of this series.
Ten lessons. One foundation.
If you’ve made it this far, you now have a solid grasp of the field of psychology. And hopefully, more than that—you’ve started to see yourself, and others, with new eyes.
Because psychology isn’t just a subject. It’s a mirror. A language. A tool for living with more awareness, more insight, and more compassion.
Thanks for listening. I’m RJ Starr.