Why do some people never say “I’m sorry”? This Inclarity Podcast episode explores the psychology of apology refusal, from fragile egos to shame avoidance to the fear of losing control. RJ Starr unpacks why apologies feel threatening for some, and what that silence does to relationships over time.

Most of us don’t see the world as it is—we see our ideas about it. Roles, labels, and stereotypes cloud our perception. In this 5-minute episode, Professor RJ Starr explores Abraham Maslow’s insight that self-actualized people live closer to reality itself, not just mental constructs. What does it mean to see clearly, and how can that shift the way we experience life?

Not all venting is what it seems. In this episode, RJ Starr explores the rise of performance complaining—when people express outrage not to process real emotion, but to signal morality, secure social alignment, or perform belonging. Why it happens, how to spot it, and what it’s costing your emotional clarity.

Why do you keep checking who liked your post—or who didn’t? Why does a missing like feel like rejection, or a passive view feel louder than words? This short-form psychology episode unpacks the emotional meaning we attach to digital interactions, and why even silence can feel deeply personal.

Why can’t we sit with anything anymore—not silence, not discomfort, not even a single uninterrupted thought? In this episode, we look at the deep psychological fracture behind modern attention spans. This isn’t just distraction—it’s erosion. From emotional avoidance to dopamine-driven design, we unpack why people bail out of the moment and what it’s costing us in depth, identity, and human connection.

Why do we say sorry just for taking up space? In this short episode of Inclarity, RJ Starr explores how the “sorry for bothering you” reflex reflects a deeper belief that we’re a disruption unless we soften ourselves first.

Behind the wheel, emotional immaturity finds a hiding place. This episode looks at why people get so reactive in traffic—and what these small acts of aggression really reveal about control, insecurity, and power when no one’s watching.

Over-explaining isn’t just about clarity—it’s about fear. In this short episode of Inclarity, RJ Starr explores how talking too much becomes a defense against judgment, rejection, or conflict. What starts as explanation becomes performance.

Why do we trust people who seem “nice,” even when their actions say otherwise? This episode examines the psychology behind likability, charm, and performative kindness. Learn how emotional manipulation hides in plain sight—and why your discomfort around “nice” people might be the clearest signal of all.

Why do we laugh even when nothing is funny? In this short episode of Inclarity, RJ Starr explores how fake laughter becomes a tool for social survival—softening tension, avoiding judgment, and protecting status. It's not about humor. It's about safety.

Some apologies aren’t spoken—they’re performed. This episode explores the quiet ways we make ourselves smaller to be accepted. From body language to emotional overfunctioning, Professor RJ Starr breaks down why so many of us say “sorry” without speaking, and what that reveals about our self-worth.

What if clarity isn’t a destination, but a space we avoid? This short intro to Inclarity Podcast sets the tone: sharp, grounded reflections on human behavior without advice or fluff. Learn what the show is, what to expect, and why we’re staying in the tension instead of rushing to fix it.