
You Are Not Your Mind: The Psychology of Radical Presence
A six-part course on discovering the stable clarity beneath your thoughts, emotions, and self-narratives.
This isn’t about mindfulness. It’s about waking up from the belief that your thoughts, emotions, or inner commentary are the sum total of who you are. Through clear, psychologically grounded lessons, you’ll learn how to stop identifying with the noise of the mind—and start accessing a quiet clarity beneath it.
Built on contemporary psychology, clinical insight, and the deep logic of human awareness, this course offers a different kind of self-understanding: one that doesn’t require constant fixing, healing, or striving.
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What you think and feel is real — but it’s not the whole story.
This opening module introduces the central insight of psychological disidentification: the idea that your thoughts and emotions, while valid, are not the same as your identity. Most people spend their entire lives entangled in the content of their inner world, reacting to every mental event as if it’s a permanent truth.
You’ll learn how to recognize thoughts and feelings as temporary mental patterns rather than as defining features of who you are. This isn’t about controlling your mind—it’s about seeing it clearly, and beginning to loosen the grip of mistaken identity.
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Awareness isn’t something you create. It’s something you notice.
Beneath the noise of inner commentary, emotional turbulence, and reactivity, there’s a stable background: unconditioned awareness. In this lesson, we explore that deeper dimension—not as a mystical concept, but as a psychological constant that’s often overlooked.
You’ll begin to sense what’s always been there—beneath the striving, the opinions, the defenses. This isn’t mindfulness as a technique. It’s an uncovering of the field in which all your experience happens, even the parts you usually try to manage or fix.
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Sometimes the impulse to improve keeps us stuck.
So much of modern self-help is built around the idea of improvement: better habits, better thoughts, better feelings. But what if that impulse to fix is just another mental loop? In this module, you’ll look at how chronic self-correction can actually reinforce the belief that something is wrong with you.
We’ll explore how striving can become a form of avoidance—how you can be so busy trying to grow that you never notice the clarity that’s already present. You’ll learn to stop solving and start seeing.
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What if your deepest wellbeing isn’t a goal — but a return?
Presence isn’t something you achieve; it’s something you remember. This lesson invites you to rest in what is already whole: the part of you that doesn’t need to be fixed, explained, or controlled.
Through experiential guidance and psychological framing, you’ll learn how to access that presence in real-time—not by bypassing your emotions, but by meeting them without resistance. This is where you begin to unhook from your usual identity strategies and allow yourself to be rather than always do.
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Awareness isn’t an escape. It’s what makes real life livable.
This is where the course gets practical. You’ll bring these insights into the mess of ordinary life—during conflict, grief, uncertainty, or boredom. The goal isn’t to become untouchable, but to realize that you can stay present even when life feels hard.
We’ll explore how nonduality shows up in everyday moments: how to listen differently, respond more gently, and recognize the wholeness that holds even your most difficult experiences. This is not about being calm. It’s about being complete—right in the middle of it all.
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Resistance is part of the path — not a sign you’re failing.
As you begin to step out of identification with thought and emotion, the mind often resists. Old habits, trauma imprints, and ego defense systems push back hard. This final module prepares you for that pushback—not as failure, but as a sign you’re touching something real.
We’ll look at what happens when clarity threatens the structures you’ve leaned on for years, and how to meet that discomfort with compassion instead of control. Growth isn’t always clean. But when you stop fearing your own resistance, something steadier takes its place.
Module 1: You Are Not Your Mind
You are not your thoughts, and you’re not your feelings either. This opening lesson explores how psychological identification forms, why mental noise feels so convincing, and what begins to change when you stop mistaking internal commentary for identity.
Module 2: The Space Behind the Noise
There’s a stable awareness beneath your thoughts, always present and often unnoticed. This lesson explores how to access that quiet backdrop—not by effort, but by shifting attention. Awareness isn’t something you achieve. It’s what’s already holding everything you experience.
Module 3: The Illusion of Fixing
What if the impulse to grow is what’s keeping you stuck? This lesson challenges the assumption that you need fixing to be okay. Discover how constant self-improvement can become a trap, and what freedom looks like when you stop needing to be better to feel whole.
Module 4: Radical Presence
Presence isn’t a tool or a technique—it’s a return to what’s already here. In this lesson, you’ll learn how to rest in direct experience without managing or interpreting it. No performance, no inner fixing—just grounded contact with what’s real, even when it’s uncomfortable.
Module 5: Wholeness in Everyday Life
Wholeness isn’t a breakthrough, it’s a posture of inclusion. This lesson explores how to live from presence in the mess of daily life: conflict, grief, boredom, routine. When nothing is left out, even discomfort becomes part of the path.
Module 6: When the Mind Pushes Back
The mind doesn’t surrender its habits quietly. This final lesson explores the pushback that comes when clarity deepens—doubt, reactivity, overthinking—and teaches you how to stay present even when the system tries to pull you back.