Essays

Essays examining psychological clarity, emotional regulation, identity, and the conditions that allow coherent thought and action.

About this series

This series consists of long-form psychological essays focused on understanding how attention, emotion, identity, and meaning function under modern conditions. These pieces are analytic rather than reactive, and explanatory rather than persuasive. They are written to clarify underlying psychological structures, not to comment on current events or offer personal guidance. The emphasis is on coherence: how inner life organizes itself, where it breaks down, and what allows it to stabilize again.

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The Psychology of Decision-Making

Decision-making is shaped more by subconscious forces than pure logic. This article explores how biases, emotions, and environmental cues distort choices, how factors like overload and fatigue worsen decisions, and offers strategies to structure choices and manage emotional interference.

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The Psychology of Resilience

Resilience is a dynamic process shaped by flexibility, coping strategies, and learned behaviors. This article explores emotional regulation, cognitive reframing, and purposeful action as core components, showing how resilience grows through manageable challenges, support, and self-compassion.

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The Psychology of Lone-Actor Terrorists

Lone-actor terrorists are often driven by personal grievances, marginalization, and identity fusion with extremist narratives. This article explores how traits like alienation and victimhood combine with online radicalization, and how early warning signs could enable prevention efforts.

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Ceremonies, Rituals and Purpose

Ceremonies and rituals meet psychological needs by turning ordinary moments into meaningful narratives. This article explores how structured traditions regulate emotions, mark transitions, and foster identity, emphasizing how intentional rituals combat modern alienation and provide existential grounding.

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The “Us vs. Them” Mentality

The "us vs. them" mentality stems from evolutionary instincts and social identity needs, fostering division and conflict. This article explores how binary thinking fuels dehumanization and stereotypes, and how recognizing shared humanity and embracing complexity can help break the cycle.

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The Psychology of Christmas Carols

Christmas carols hold psychological power by triggering nostalgia, strengthening social bonds, and evoking warmth and belonging. This article explores how their simple structures and traditions create emotional connections, serving as lasting markers of time and cultural identity.

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Choosing Who We Become

Personal growth is not about finding a fixed self but actively shaping identity through deliberate action. This article explores how consistent choices, reflection, and behavioral commitments drive transformation, showing that true change emerges from reshaping habits and self-narratives over time.

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The Psychology of Objectification

Objectification reduces people to tools or obstacles, fostering psychological distance and enabling harm. This article explores how dehumanizing language, stereotypes, and power imbalances diminish empathy, and offers strategies like agency restoration and perspective-taking to counteract it.

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Public Shaming and the Psychology of Humiliation

Public shaming uses humiliation as social control, triggering primal fears of ostracism and deep psychological distress. This article explores how digital platforms amplify shame’s harm and highlights restorative alternatives that separate behavior condemnation from personhood destruction.

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Understanding Social Anxiety and Avoidance

Social anxiety arises from fear of negative evaluation, driving avoidance behaviors that worsen distress over time. This article explores the psychological mechanisms behind the cycle and presents strategies like graduated exposure and cognitive restructuring to build resilience through discomfort.

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The Psychology of Cheap Content

In an age of viral snippets, society increasingly mistakes cheap content for real value. This article explores how shallow engagement erodes critical thinking and argues that reclaiming depth requires resisting algorithmic ease and intentionally prioritizing substance over superficiality.

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The Psychology of Family Conflict

Holiday family tensions often stem from clashing expectations and unresolved history, not surface disagreements. This article explores how shifting from debate to active listening and empathy can defuse conflict and foster genuine connection or peaceful coexistence.

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Understanding Resistance to Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion

Resistance to DEI initiatives often stems from perceived threats to identity or fairness beliefs, not outright prejudice. This article explores how understanding underlying fears and motivations can foster more effective engagement and reduce polarization around equity efforts.

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Anchored in the Past

Cognitive anchoring and stability bias cause us to judge others based on first impressions, even when new evidence emerges. This article explores how outdated perceptions persist and how recognizing these mental shortcuts can help us make fairer, more accurate assessments.

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Misinformation and Political Polarization: A Social Psychology Perspective

Misinformation thrives in polarized environments by exploiting tribal psychology and group identity. This article explores how confirmation bias and motivated reasoning fuel echo chambers and argues that breaking the cycle requires addressing the social needs behind polarization, not just correcting facts.

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Embracing Life as an Introvert Homebody

Introversion and homebody tendencies are often misunderstood as limiting, but they offer deep satisfaction and fulfillment. This article explores the psychological benefits of a quieter, inward-focused lifestyle and offers strategies for thriving in an extrovert-driven culture.

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Heuristics and Schemas: Mental Shortcuts and Frameworks

Heuristics and schemas are cognitive shortcuts that aid quick thinking but often lead to biases and errors. This article explores how these mental frameworks shape perception and decision-making, and how recognizing their influence can help us think more deliberately and accurately.

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Transforming Conflict into Connection

Public outrage often masks deeper unmet needs. By responding with empathy—listening without judgment and acknowledging emotions—we can transform conflicts into connections, turning polarization into understanding.

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