
Essays
Essays on self-awareness, emotional intelligence, identity, and the psychology of living with clarity, purpose, and connection.
The Psychology of Objectification
Objectification reduces people to tools or obstacles, fostering psychological distance and enabling harm. This article explores how dehumanizing language, stereotypes, and power imbalances diminish empathy, and offers strategies like agency restoration and perspective-taking to counteract it.
Public Shaming and the Psychology of Humiliation
Public shaming uses humiliation as social control, triggering primal fears of ostracism and deep psychological distress. This article explores how digital platforms amplify shame’s harm and highlights restorative alternatives that separate behavior condemnation from personhood destruction.
Understanding Social Anxiety and Avoidance
Social anxiety arises from fear of negative evaluation, driving avoidance behaviors that worsen distress over time. This article explores the psychological mechanisms behind the cycle and presents strategies like graduated exposure and cognitive restructuring to build resilience through discomfort.
Everyone’s Watching — or Are They?
The "spotlight effect" causes us to overestimate how much others notice or judge us, fueling social anxiety and perfectionism. This article explores why self-focused attention distorts perception and how recognizing others' preoccupation with themselves can ease unnecessary self-censorship.
The Hidden Psychology Driving the Decline of Critical Thinking
Critical thinking is declining not from lack of intelligence but from environments that discourage it. This article explores how cognitive overload, algorithmic curation, and social reinforcement erode deep analysis, and how intentional effort can help reclaim thoughtful engagement.
The Psychology of Cheap Content
In an age of viral snippets, society increasingly mistakes cheap content for real value. This article explores how shallow engagement erodes critical thinking and argues that reclaiming depth requires resisting algorithmic ease and intentionally prioritizing substance over superficiality.
The Psychology of Family Conflict
Holiday family tensions often stem from clashing expectations and unresolved history, not surface disagreements. This article explores how shifting from debate to active listening and empathy can defuse conflict and foster genuine connection or peaceful coexistence.
Understanding Resistance to Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion
Resistance to DEI initiatives often stems from perceived threats to identity or fairness beliefs, not outright prejudice. This article explores how understanding underlying fears and motivations can foster more effective engagement and reduce polarization around equity efforts.
Anchored in the Past
Cognitive anchoring and stability bias cause us to judge others based on first impressions, even when new evidence emerges. This article explores how outdated perceptions persist and how recognizing these mental shortcuts can help us make fairer, more accurate assessments.
From Ethics to Existence: Kantian Philosophy and Existential Psychology
Kantian ethics and existential psychology approach human purpose from different angles—universal moral duty versus individual meaning-making. This article explores how combining Kant’s structure with existentialism’s focus on authenticity can create a more balanced framework for living.
Misinformation and Political Polarization: A Social Psychology Perspective
Misinformation thrives in polarized environments by exploiting tribal psychology and group identity. This article explores how confirmation bias and motivated reasoning fuel echo chambers and argues that breaking the cycle requires addressing the social needs behind polarization, not just correcting facts.
Embracing Life as an Introvert Homebody
Introversion and homebody tendencies are often misunderstood as limiting, but they offer deep satisfaction and fulfillment. This article explores the psychological benefits of a quieter, inward-focused lifestyle and offers strategies for thriving in an extrovert-driven culture.
Heuristics and Schemas: Mental Shortcuts and Frameworks
Heuristics and schemas are cognitive shortcuts that aid quick thinking but often lead to biases and errors. This article explores how these mental frameworks shape perception and decision-making, and how recognizing their influence can help us think more deliberately and accurately.
Transforming Conflict into Connection
Public outrage often masks deeper unmet needs. By responding with empathy—listening without judgment and acknowledging emotions—we can transform conflicts into connections, turning polarization into understanding.